Hey, I own a forum, here and there has been one user that has really, Pissed Me Off. Anyway, he started spamming and swearing on the forums, so in the end I did this:
also let me just tell all of you this is a BOY we are talking to, a very emotional boy...

lol

First, I sent a ban message, It wasnt automated (I lied) But it was fun cause it looked automated.

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Dear PCessa,

You have been temperately banned from posting in these Game Freak forums, for the following reason(s).

* Disrespecting other members.
* Using coarse language.
* Disobeying all rules even after warned.
* Spamming forums that are not ment to be spammed. (I knew someone would spam on a forum, so to keep it all down, we have the Chatterbox forums, just use them.)

You have now been banned from the server for 3 days.
Think about what you have done and come back relaxed, and ready to enjoy these forums and not mess around.

Do not try and get around this ban or your account will be terminated.

Don't worry about replying to this message, this is a automatic message that has been sent without endorsement.

Regards,

Admin (Jenz).
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A couple of days later I got a nasty reply from him:
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okay my final anger and final curse word are below.
uhmm... now i look like an AS SHO LE with the inappropriate, over high, undeserved absolutely 2-year old unexpectable child-like ban that i got. 40 percent warning, jenz congratz you just about lost another member, not a threat a FACT.
Done Being angry:
oh, Jenz you are WONDERING why you only have 36 members and here you go
Yes, i my warning is not too much nicer but compare
3-Day Ban
40 Percent Warning
Me:
1ST OFFENSE
1-day ban
33.33 percent warning
then
3-day ban
66.66 percent warning
finally
100 percent warning/99.99 percent warning
IP Ban or/ final half month ban.
if half month ban
I'm sorry jenz but i think due to the "Warning level" i'm quiting. Were you to not put such a horrible looking warning level, only took away the 10 karma, and stop giving strict rules, Jenz your boards would be the next hot spot.
Unless i see anything done with the warning in 48 hours.
I'm quiting.
I am no longer advertising your forums on mine, sorry.
I am no longer advertising your forums on my blog, sorry.
I am not going to advertise your forums on my website now, sorry.
Please give my life a break, i am still recovering from a death in my family that occurred a little over a year ago that was major, but seeing the way you like to treat me, now that i am so hurt, too from your crap, i am not going to tell you about it and simply end my hurt of your forums dog pile RIGHT HERE.
Good luck, change your crap please Jenz!
PCessna
p.s. if you need to know, me and sion are not only friends, but he joined my forums.
So quit any bitching you might have in the future about me getting along with crap.
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And I felt quite insulted, even though I new on her forum she only has 7 members...
But I knew I had to do something, I mean, that made me feel like I had to take action. So I wrote a reply:
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I really show no interest in that reply.

First of all, my forum sends automated messages so whether it was the Auto bot that offended you or that you just don't like my forums is understandable.

You are making me wonder that you have given me a threatening email because you saw a warning message and a ban? Strict rules must be taken to those offenders in case you didn't know.

If your choice is to leave, or have the warning level taken away, then I suggest you leave. You have shown no respect to this forum and have completely violated its content, if you have lost control of your emotions on this forum because you are suffering from a death related event or just too much pressure of looking after your own forum and website, then it would be better if you leave. I show no remorse, and what so ever in letting you get off these forums. If you we're so emotional about a red bar, you should of emailed me proposing that you shall from now on show respect in this forum, for, as you know, on this board, I am in a higher position.

I may have different rules on my forum, I feel discomfited by your rules too, we all have our different opinions, that is no reason to insult one another.

If you want to leave, then leave. I really don't care about threats, why must I hold you back and beg you for forgiveness? If you hate my forum and find it unsuitable for your likings press the X in the top right corner of your screen. Don't send me threats and emails about how horrible my rules are and dish out poor excuses. If you have a reason to not be here, as I said before, don't feel held back, if you want to leave, leave. If you want to change and start contributing to this forum, Change. If you really want to be a nice person, you may email me telling me you are leaving.

I feel that you hold to much emotion for everything. You must not grab soap and squeeze it, because it will just fall out of your hands, I hope you have learned a lesson from all of this and after we can be good friends.
If you have not learned anything, and you are still sitting with rage inside you, then I do not want you here, you do not belong here otherwise. Those are my rules, rules are rules, and I am making them clear to you.

As I say in most of my emails, I am not insulting you, I do not wish to receive a reply with another threat and poor excuse. You may leave when you wish, if you want to email me, feel free to do so.

I hope you carefully think about what you have done and what you are going to do.

Regards
~Jenz
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I am yet to hear a reply but I really hope that he changes his act pretty soon before he has no friends...

Or if he already has no friends, then i dont care...

: Btw i LUV the new layout!

So, did I do good?
Was my emails too harsh?
Did I really show that I have rules and he must obey them just like everyone else?
Im scared something bad is going to become from all of this...

Please comment!